The Whole ‘I am Gay’ Publicity Stunt!

Being an open gay man, I was very happy to hear of Tom Daley’s ‘coming out’ story, but with such a media interest, I cannot help but wonder if the whole thing was a publicity stunt for Tom’s new TV series ‘Splash’

Mr Daley wrote this on his twitter just a couple of hours ago…

Tom Daley ‏@TomDaley19944 

Thanks for your support  Still Tom. Still diving. Going for gold in 2016. What I am or who I date shouldn’t matter. #Road2Rio

Wise words for such a young guy….. BUT

And I use a major BUT

If who you are, or who you date…. does not matter, then why announce such a big chunk of your personal life on YOUTUBE.

I lost a huge amount of respect for Tom after reading this comment on his official twitter page.

Being gay is a struggle day to day, due to the high mass of homophobia some of us go threw

 hearing Tom’s latest  video about him being in a relationship with a man and referring to himself as  ’BI’ tells us, that he is still keeping options open to both his male and female fanbase…

But I begin to worry if this is just a way for Tom and his management team to CASH in until he takes part in the Rio Olympics in 2016???

I hope I am wrong, but seeing how Tom is now has become a celebrity more than a diver…..

Is this just a way for the Tom Daley to sell more books/calendars and become a million pound brand?

Whats your opinions?

ugh, so annoyed lol… I have to vent..

Just saw this post on Facebook, and I have to say it really pissed me off.

“Why must some gay men have to be so flamboyant? I mean, why can’t you be masculine and still love cock? I mean, I love cock and a man’s ass more than anyone, but I am still manly!

Either become a girl and act accordingly or act manly! Who likes feminine, loud & obnoxious men?? 

Furthermore, why do you have a degree and work as a barista? Really? Like, what a waste of money! Aren’t you ashamed? You should be so loud because the whole restaurant can hear you…. OK that’s all lol”

First of all, this crap, expecially coming from a gay man with no photos on his profile, I find hillerious.

I am a CAMP GAY MAN, but it’s not an act, look threw all my childhood photos and you will see how much of a screaming homo I was to become….

Being flamboyant is also not a ‘gay’ thing, I know plenty of heterosexual males who you could question…..

BUT

Looking threw their computer and finding lesbian porn, I believe my gaydar can be off at times.

I hate the whole ‘straight acting’

We as gays have been fighting for years and still continue to do so, yet SEX comes into it always.

You should always accept people for who they are, and not for the fantasy you have of being fucked by a straight guy.

Became as fun as it sounds…. It dont happen, and when it does, give the guy time before you admits you the truth that he was always gay.

STOP JUDGING, AND JUST BE KIND TO PEOPLE

The world is a shit place already without us GAYS Judging each-other also!!!

Rants over..

Piece & Love

TJ

From – To + How Life Can Change….

My friend called me today………… He has just been dignosed with HIV……

His tears gave me a pulling feeling inside my chest………

I know my post might offend people suffering from HIV… and I really hope it does not, but I promise you all, I would never go out my way to hurt somebody’s feelings.

This friend, was not just a friend, I have not seen him in over a year…. I guess you could say we was drinking buddies with MAJOR sexual benefits…

I have had a HIV scare myself, and I found it terrifying, even with the msgs saying “Don’t worry, its fine, just take the meds, and you will live a long life” I could only think to myself…. yes Long, but will it be happy?

My friend is question is not on any of my social media profiles, otherwise I would never write this blog…… My feelings turned to anger, when he suggested that we could continue to see each-other… and have BB (no condom) sex together….

When I said are you kidding me….. you should wear a condom……….

His reply was “LOL stop being frigged”

Shouly not wearing protection is the reason he got into this place in the first place right???

(I’m sorry that’s not suppose to offend)

I just think regardless of people with or without HIV, people don’t take their health/life people seriously….

When finding out people don’t go for regular checks, I find it disgusting…. to risk somebody’s life and their idiotic reply “I never knew I had it” just does not work anymore, expecially with the free health checks we get into this country.

I am sad to say I have no value in my life…. I think I am fat and UGLY and worthless yet why am I so afraid and judgmental about people who clearly don’t value theirs ever???

My mind seems to be a ticking BOMB of thoughts………… thoughts that’s scare me!

Today I lost a little more of my  protective bubble………………

2nd Date…. FROM HELL

Using a cute/innocent picture so I can once again play the role of the VICTIM!!

So I met this guy on Grindr, we have been chatting, planning to meet but it’s always been HIT N MISS

So today we finally met.

We headed to G-A-Y Bar for a drink, and sat outside the theater, we chatted away, talking about types of guys we liked, I could see him looking at me with his eyes, but felt he was friendly…

It was then he used the old OMG MY PHONE IS DYING CAN I COME TO YOUR PLACE TO CHARGE,

We grabbed a bottle and headed back, I saw his phone and it was no way near to death, but hay ho,  I’m horny LOL

So we both decided to just chill, but you know two GAY guys cannot be alone without some hussle or bussle….

WE HAD SEX….

GREAT SEX

MIND BLOWING SEX

and then……………..

He freaked out and said he needed to go……. I was confused, we was getting along so well..

It was then his phone rang…..

“Hello Baby, I am at the station, be back in around 40 mins”

I could hear a voice…. It was female…….

I noticed the ring….

He was married

“GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY HOUSE”]

Date was well and truly over…

Well…. Straight sex seems to be much more fun than GAY

Any single ladies wanna play some ball?

Why Do Straight Guy’s Get So Offended When Gays Are Not Into Them?

So last night when taking the tube back home, a stupid french man was making fun of me on the tube, calling me GAYBOY the usual childhood names…

TBH it does not brother me, but I just felt like getting my own back….

I then told him, “honestly if you was the last guy in the world, I’d rather have a wank”

His face dropped, was he embarrassed that I’d made him look stupid, or was he simply insulted that I wasn’t interested….

STRAIGHT BOYS GET YOUR ACT TOGETHER, NOT EVER GAY GUY WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU…

FIRST DATE THEN BECAME MY LAST….. BUT WAS MY UNDERWEAR TO BLAME?

So last night I went on a date with a guy I had been chatting to for a couple of weeks.

After arranging a time and place, we met up at the Kings Arms (DON’T ASK) In Soho, He is 25, from Spain, Beautiful and had the most beautiful smile I had ever seen.

After a couple of drinks, one thing lead to another, hands started to wonder each others body’s on the London Street’s, we arrive back to my building and never in my life has walking up two flight of stairs become such a mission…. I felt as if we was going to have sex in my foyer… but we arrive to my bedroom in one piece…

SEX TIME!!!

During sex…… I was red in the face, when he commented that my underwear was not high-end designer and that I should of made more effort….. Usually I do, but we did agree to a no-sex on first date rule, which we both FAILED…

Eventually he left…… his smile has become a non-existent, and within minutes his eyes had already moved onto somebody else as we exited my apartment, and he was cursing the locals…

“Think I am gonna go for a drink, before I go home…. GOODNIGHT”

The cold polite remark for “Thanks, But FUCK OFF”

I went to bed, watching Sex And The City…. thinking I really am more of a Charlotte, Stuck in a Samantha Jones body….

BOYS BOYS BOYS….

So was my bad choice of underwear to blame for his coldness or was I just crap in bed????